Tamar Braxton Addresses Divorce In Heartfelt Open Letter [PHOTO]
Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness &Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!.here is the thing,& MY truth..you don’t have to like me & while I’m woke,I can see that most of you don’t now..even when you did.something has changed w/her..but it’s ok, because I don’t..well,didn’t like me either.I told myself I would do whatever it took to keep my family together,to see a smile on someone who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them hope,faith,Love& dignity that I️ once possessed. But the truth is all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar & Vince♀️ ..at least not anymore.married people who are reading will know what I mean.Sometimes we stay”married”for face value or to say”we did it”but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary! You can say he did this,she did that,I️ put up with”this”& I’ve suffered & endured”this”for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay♀️we get so caught up in WE are”winning”in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I️ decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.I wanted to have a relationship.Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our failures,our past,present & future with..& not finding out shit online♀️..some of us have been living a LIE!..& sometimes when things R shared,what’s NOT being surfaced is that he has one or several girlfriends,or she’s never home,or he’s very general when he speaks,or “this doesn’t sound like him” or he’s so busy lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself?When is enough enough? Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue?Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are “our” friends? Or, we fight but that’s “passion”❌ let’s get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of “your”house when I’m the house of cards?None of this is ok..& while I’m not pushing anyone out of the door..I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of mine!That LAST time was the LAST time
In a lengthy open letter, the “Love and War” singer revealed that her marriage was “broken” and a “lie.”
“Sometimes we stay ‘married’ for face value or to say ‘we did it, but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &f urther apart than we are NOW! Even on an anniversary!” she wrote in the post. “I’ve suffered & endured “this” for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice 2 stay we get so caught up in WE are ‘winning’ in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us!”
“I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so,” she continues. “I wanted to have a relationship. Someone to share my/our dreams, our successes, our failures,our past, present & future with..& not finding out shit online…some of us have been living a LIE!”
Tamar went on to suggest that her marriage to Herbert lacked trust and she also accused him of having “one or several girlfriends.”
Tamar’s letter comes as her mother, Evelyn Braxton, demanded that Herbert stay away from her daughter before she hurts or even kills her.
For his part, Vincent insists that he’s not out to hurt Tamar. In fact, he loves Tamar so much that he wants to reconcile with the R&B singer. But Tamar is not having it.
Tamar and Vincent’s impending divorce and drama will unfold on the season premiere of Tamar & Vince on Thursday (Nov. 9) at 9PM ET on WE tv.