Why Did Janay Marry Ray? It’s Called Love!

Everybody is talking about the Ray Rice situation today.  Despite the different opinions,  everyone agrees that he was wrong.

The question everyone asking is why did she marry him after being embarrassed, humiliated and physically abused.

When you are in love it is so easy to lose your identity, yourself, and become who your significant other wants you to be.

Everyone wants to be loved and once you are faced with the fear of losing that love we will do what we have to too keep it.  So many times we lose ourselves in relationships trying to please the person we love.

Right now she is where she wants to be.  The more she is criticized and questioned the more she will do to defend her position.  That’s her decision.  I just hope she knows what she is doing.