8 Marriage Monday Tips With Alabama’s Favorite Pastor

Marriage ain't easy!

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Even during the good times, it requires hard work to make a marriage last.

Until Death Do Us Part

Our friend and Townsquare Media contributor, Pastor Scott McCown of Central Church of Christ in Tuscaloosa, joins us today with eight tips/things that are critical to making a relationship strong.

So, grab your mate and check yourself before you have wrecked yourself.

OK, Brother Scott, what do you have to say today...

Eight Ts for Successful Marriages

1. Time – Spend time together—time just for the two of you. Make your marriage last for years.

2. Talk – The greatest three words in marriage are “I Love You.” There are five other important words: “Tell me about your day.”

3. Touch – Hold hands like you are dating. Steal subtle touches when you are around each other.

4. Transparency – There are NO secrets in marriage. Be transparent with each other. Talk honestly about issues, feelings, desires, dreams, and disappointments.

5. Togetherness – Learn to do things together. We like to cook together, do yard work together, and take walks together.

6. Time out of daily routine – Step away from the TV, computer, housework, children, telephone, etc. Get away from all the distractions you can and focus on one another for a few minutes, hours, or better yet – days.

7. Tenderness – Tenderness, also known as gentleness, is a fruit of the Spirit. Be tender toward each other, both physically and emotionally. Tenderness demonstrates compassionate care and appreciation.

8. Think creatively (flirt) – Know your husband or wife well enough not to take the easy way out when you give gifts or do something for them. She may not like flowers, chocolate, or jewelry, so those gifts may not mean much. She may enjoy a spa trip or a country picnic with you. That may speak to her heart in a much more personal way. Be creative!